Complications

“You need to realize this, one complicated person into another complicated person results in unlimited complications and simple life is the one that is relaxed and contented”. She reflected on what I insisted earlier.

“How can you say this? Scientific rules states that two contradictory and equal forces neglect each other’s effect. They become neutral. So, in this approach you and I is the most simplest and modest thing in this entire universe”

She chuckles while listening to my logical talks.

Not because it made her happy but because she knew that this, this as in “us”, cannot happen in this life time and she thought it was too childish of me still talking about the stuff that cannot stand a single chance.

Deep down inside my heart, I knew she was veracious.

I know it but she didn’t know that I can change all the circumstances for her.

If she wants,

If she allows me to,

And if it makes her happy.

‘CAUSE IN THE END, IT’S ALL WHAT MATTERS TO ME THE MOST!

HER HAPPINESS. J

RAIN

I saw the silver liquid drops pouring on the ground

The scent of them enchant me

And dazzle me as they touch my face, slipping through my skin.

It feels like it's cleansing my soul.

Forcing my worries to fade away

Making me resilient

Calming me

And Healing me

For the unfortunate which is passed.

Modelling me stronger 

Constructing a guard around me

Retuning me 

And refining me 

For the frightful which is yet to come.

The final day...!

                 

 All the struggle, all the pain, all the miseries end with death. Yeah... this is the truth that death is the solution for all your problems. Your fight can only be over With it. But there's a catch honey, you can't get it the easy way. The irony is that you can't ask for it even knowing that this is the remedy for all your problems.
You have to wait and wait for it to come to you... and the fun part is that you can't sit idle and just wait for it, you're not allowed to do that either. Infact you have to fight, you have to suffer, you have to bear the pain with smile on your lips, every single day, every single minute, every single second of your life.
And then YOUR day will finally come. Have you ever thought about how many people will be sad for you? How many will miss you? Or will be sorry for you? Would a Few of them regret that they should have said a Few nice words to you before it's too late?
May be yess... it may happen!
But what will happen after days? After months? After years?? You'll just became a faded memory in their minds, not more than this, for sure!
And then there would be a Few ones who'll still remember you like a fresh rose, your memories would be still fresh in their mind, the fragrance of your memories would perfume their heart forever.
Those are the people you've finally earned from all your pain, struggle and miseries of life. YOUR TRUE AND ACTUAL ASSET.
Care for them while you're waiting for YOUR day to come!
           

           

An Un-said Story...

He clearly loved me

 and sometimes I loved him too

 but it was too late until I realized it.

 I finally said good bye with a wrenched heart

 and watched him go. 

 ...

 The more he was walking away

 the more my heart paced fast,
 my mind overflowed with ocean of thoughts,
 my eyes filled with tears,
 and 

 I knew it was too late to say anything.

  I also knew

 that he took a part of me with him.

FOREVER...!

HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE...!

If you want to be happy and relaxed a desired dream you had last night is enough! 
A single small conversation is everything you need...
A sweet hello from the desired person is sufficient...
A single drop of rain or a ray of sunshine is adequate...
A simple touch of moon light 
Or the cold breeze gently touching your face is all the pleasure you've always wanted...
These simple things are enough for you IF you want to be happy
BUT mind it... there is a big IF! 

Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude. Denis Waitley 

There are multiple effortless and simple ways to be happy, if you want to. Yes! it's your choice to be happy. Here are convinient 13 steps you have to follow if you want to be happy.

1. Expect less, Hope more! Do not keep your expectations high because high expectations often let you down. According to the Australian teams psychologist, Graham Winters, it feels better to come third when you are not expecting it than to be piped for first. Being hopeful is something that keeps you going even in the darkest times of your life. So,stop expecting high from others, hoping well is other thing.
   
2. Believe in yourself! Always believe in yourself. Don't let others to tell you that there is something you cannot do. If you don't believe yourself then it does not matter how talented you are or how big your dreams are. When you believe yourself, you will be satisfied and this satisfaction will ultimately leads towards happiness. 
   
3. Accept others for who they are...! Do not tell others what they should be and how they have to change themselves. Accept them for who they are.
   Every person is unique with goodness inside them. When you will start accepting others for who they are your worries become less and you will be more happy then you were before. 
   
4. Respect others choices! Remember one thing that respect is more important than love. Always respect each other's choices. Give respect to others opinions. Your opinion or way of thinking could be different and so is the case with others. So, stop implementing your choices and thinking to others. This easy step can make your life really easy, also improving quality of your interpersonal relations.Hence, making you happy. 
   
5. Be Grateful for what you have! NEVER, EVER look forward to the
   things you don't have in your life,instead always be grateful for what you have. Studies shows that focusing on the things you don't have will reduce your life satisfaction which ultimately reduces happiness. 
   
6. Let go of Idealism! No one's life is ideal, everyone have their own flaws. The difference is only that some people's flaws are hidden somehow, making others believe that their life is perfect. It's not true, no one here is perfect. Everyone has weaknesess and limitations. So, if you want to be perfect or wants to have an ideal life then this concept of achieving perfectionism would only increase your stress level. You should always hope and try to be better then you were before but while doing this always remember that "Perfection is a goal that will forever remain impossible for any human being to achieve. Therefore, the only achievable goal is to only strive to become the best that you can possibly be.” __Edmond Mbiaka 
   
7. Be Real! Our true self is being who we are. Do not strive to become what you are not. "Be who you are and say what you want, for those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." __Dr. Suess 
   
8. Spread Smiles and Love! If you want yourself to be happy then justify 
   your desire by spreading love and distributing smiles among others. Moreover, it's a wise saying that what you give to others will ultimately come to you.  
   
9. Give importance to simpler things! Gold does not predict happiness. If you have choose to be happy then a good weather, a cup of coffee along with a simple conversation with a good friend will makes you more than happy.
   
10. Always think Well! Once you replace your negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results. This is why it is always suggested to think well. Negative thoughts bring worries to your life and positive ones on the other hand relax you down, making yourself happy. 
    
11. Spread Positivity, Ignore Negativity! World is filled with
    negativity already, don't contribute to make it more negative. Spread positive vibes around yourself and when you do so, you'll notice that people will love to be around you. The positive light you'll emit will enlighten them too, making you contend. And if you encounter some negativity, then don't become a part of it, don't contribute in its darkness, just ignore it and walk away. This will make your life easy and will make you happy, in return.  
    
12. Don't be Materialistic! What do you
    think? Having Lamborghini or Bugatti, owning an apartment alongside the beach in  Mostique or Moorea Island or even possessing Koh-i-Noor or The Sancy Diamond determine your happiness? Then you are completely wrong about it. Happiness isn't a tangible thing you can buy on a sale. If you want to buy something that leads toward happiness, then spend on experiences (not things). The joy of buying stuff or having expensive stuff fades away with time but the quality time spend with the loved ones always remain in your memories always refreshing your heart with joy. That is why you won't see billionaires much happy. 
    
13. Stop Judging! The basic problem in our world is that we start judging people
    and develop an opinion about them after our first meet-up. The truth is we don't have this right. There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why they're the way they are. You can't judge others choices without understanding their reasons. So, stop judging. "Still, it was the sad state of the world that people judged others not by the best they could be but by the worst thoughts in our own hearts."__Elizebeth Hoyt  
    

LOVE: Blessing or Annihilation?

"Passion is momentary; love is enduring." 

John Wooden

Love is an emotion, everyone talks about it, thinks about it and every person you have ever met have discussed love at least once in their life. Though, the opinions of people could be different. To some, love can be pretty amazing thing that has ever happened to them and to the other it can be the opposite. Some think it's complete destruction and to others it is salvation. It is pretty clear that LOVE is a game changer. 

According to researches, people having negative views about love actually have defective love experiences in past and their unpleasant feelings about love are actually depicting their feelings towards their partners, which they ultimately generalize over love. So, it is well said that love doesn't hurt, loving the wrong person does. 

People having such experiences of love terms love as painful. Such as Damon Salvatore, a character from CW show The Vampire Diaries said "I've been in love, it's painful, pointless and over rated" 

Diane Ackerman said "Love is the best school, but the tuition is high and the homework can be painful" And the famous proverb "where there is love, there is pain" 

The question here is: 'Is love actually devastating as most people narrate it? The simple answer to this question is 'NO'. 

Love is like a beautiful flower whose fragrance is all around you, which filled your heart with delight.

You cannot find such love, instead love finds you. The love which gives pain is not love at all, it is the illusion of love. Love is the light which shows the way, it endure the darkness because it shows the stars, the brightest ones.

Love does not happen at once, if it does then it also fades away at the same pace too. True love doesn't happen right away, it's an ever growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together.

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.”

Now, it's upto you to decide...
whether love is a blessing or annihilation?